What Men Really Want

    I saw a video about this young lady, who was an exotic dancer. She decided to get augmentations on her body. She explained that she had several operations because she kept seeing other young ladies whose butts were bigger than hers and she was jealous. This turned into a competition for her. Many times women believe that this is what all men want. They will butcher their bodies to gain the attention of people that they don’t know, only to suffer the consequences of their need for validation and acceptance. Unfortunately, society often reminds women that if they don’t look a certain way, they are not meeting media’s standard of beauty. Consequently, women that look this way create the sex object fantasy. The human factor of the person is diminished or non-existent. The abnormal appearance of the enhancement creates disdain for the attention received. The impact that these procedures could possibly have on a person’s health are extremely risky. In her case, this procedure caused an infection which made the outcome irreversible. For health reasons, this young lady had no choice but to continue to get additional operations which made her butt even larger and more abnormal looking. The video below shows a young lady’s journey after her decision to augment her body. Nobody is "perfect". All of us have things about our appearance that we would change if we had the opportunity to do so. Sometimes changing something, when there's nothing wrong creates a bigger problem. Each and every one of us is a unique creation. Love yourself!