let's talk about sex

     This has got to be one of the most controversial topics in today’s society.  Many times people often get into a sexual situation with someone based on physical attraction. People often use the phrase “WE’RE GROWN” as the reason for having sex with someone soon after meeting them. Unfortunately, being grown has nothing to do with becoming knowledgeable. Unfortunately many people don’t understand the consequences of connecting with another person in that way. I remember learning about this topic a few years back. Sadly, we don't always do better when we know better until something happens that causes us to recall the information that we previously learned. We must understand that every time we have sex, we connect our soul to another person’s soul. Soul ties are defined as intimate bonds with another person. This means that a person can have several soul ties, that have never been broken, that can affect the outcome of future relationships, including marriage. When you have sex, you become bound or glued to that person, therefore when you separate from them, there is often emotional damage to one or both parties involved.  Connecting to several people sexually means that you glue yourself to several spirits at the same time. People often believe that sex is just a physical release. These unbroken soul ties will hinder your ability to fully connect and bond in a healthy relationship, often bringing "baggage" in the form of distrust, inability to communicate, and low self esteem. How can you feel this way about someone you just met? The reason is that you carry these issues in and out of every situation you enter into and pick up more issues every time you decide to lay down with another person. Many times after a sexual relationship, you can think about a person and still feel the after effects of he/she has done to you, whether it was good or bad. It’s not because you loved them so much, it’s because you still have an unbroken soul tie to that person. The longer you have sex with someone, the stronger the soul tie becomes. When a person has sex with someone that he or she hardly knows, the person then becomes a familiar stranger. It is very dangerous to spiritually connect to an unfamiliar person. After sex, your spirit becomes familiar with the other persons spirit. How many times after sex have you said to someone or someone has said to you, “I feel like I’ve known you all my life”.  If a person has an ungodly spirit attached to them, guess what, that spirit has now attached itself to you. When you think about the fact that every single time you have sex, your spirit, emotions and every aspect of your being becomes united with the other person, you then understand the impact that soul ties have on your life.  There is an innate ability in all of us to detect when something is not right.  We often ignore the signals that are designed to warn us when something is out of place. We like the familiar feeling that we have with this person so we continue to sleep with them because it feels physically comfortable, but your spirit may feel confused.  It is important to ask God to reveal the soul ties that need to be severed.  God should be our strongest soul tie that will protect us from evil spirits.  Sexual immorality is the vessel that opens us up to many ungodly soul ties.  When we think about our sexual behavior, a question comes to mind. How many soul ties do you still have attached to you? 1 Corinthians 5:6- Do you know that, a little leaven will leaven the whole lump? In other words, do you know that a little sin that we allow into our lives will infect every other area of our life?